I don't understand stupidity. I would like
to make it clear that I'm not referring here to being intellectually
disabled. In fact I've sometimes found
those who are, more aware and clued up than the supposedly 'normal'. I also
don't mean those who don't have any higher education - university or polytech
is not everyone's cup of tea. Plus many who have been, seem to turn off their
brain the moment the ink is dry on their degree. Rather, I mean those who have
a perfectly functional at-least-average intelligence, but choose not to use it.
There are, I feel, two types of stupidity.
Those who practise the first are boring but usually harmless enough. They're
the people who simply who go through life without any particular thought or
plan, who seem to live by rote, just 'doing what everyone else does'. For
their entire lives. If they think at all - and I'm not certain it counts as
'thinking' - it seems to be a kind of rote thinking, or rather not
thinking, a mere repeating of conventional ideas, "what everybody thinks",
or "what everybody knows".
You've probably met this sort - the ones
who talk almost entirely in cliches, "well I never, it'll be all right in
the morning, what goes round comes round, time heals all wounds, etc,
etc"; and who seem to have never had an original thought in their lives.
If asked their opinion on some issue of the day, they usually say something
like "Well I never really thought about it", or "I don't really
have an opinion on that" - and seem surprised you even ask. Their minds
seem closed, their lives limited, and they never question authority or seek to
challenge themselves in any fashion.
I first remember encountering this in a
teenage friend, in a girl I'd known since primary school. I was truly shocked
one day when, after I expressed an opinion on some issue, she responded with
what I recognised as a parrotting of her parent's highly reactionary opinion,
and seemed to feel no need to revisit that, or form her own views.
I find it hard to connect with such people
(even more so than most, I mean), but they do form a sort of unquestioning
mass, who simply get on with the day to day necessary things of life. I suppose
we need them. But stupidity isn't just about being on a sort of mental
autopilot, and the second type are a very different story. They think all right
- but only in certain narrow ways, or by grabbing hold of some wisp of an idea,
building it up into a 'castle in the air', and then seeing only those things
that bolster their views, avoiding or ignoring anything that challenges them.
The result is they hold beliefs I can only
describe as nonsensical. I'm thinking here, for instance, of a woman I knew in
my twenties. She once told me, very solemnly, that Maori and Sanskrit were
related because their words for dog - "kuri" and "cur"
respectively - were similar. I was studying Historical Linguistics at the time,
and nearly laughed in her face, knowing there was no relation between them, as
would anyone with a small knowledge of history or the two languages. This was a
woman who'd travelled widely, had a variety of interesting experiences, and
completed a university degree, yet she could harbour this completely ridiculous
belief. And don't even get me started on those who believe in things
like UFOs and conspiracy theories or Elvis being still alive. I'm no genius,
but I don't think you have to be to see through some of the BS trotted out by
those who should know better.
When such opinions are held privately by
individuals, they're harmless enough, if a little silly. But when people in
power hold stupid beliefs, often ones based in blind prejudice (one of the
worst kinds of stupidity - but a convenient one for leaders of course, on the
old 'divide and rule and keep 'em distracted' principle), then it becomes
something far more blood-curdling. Hitler was a prime example of this - a
stupid fanatic who led average Germans (many of them practising the first kind
of stupidity), and in the end most of Europe, into the chaos and horror of war
and the Holocaust.
And it isn't only the leaders of countries
who can be stupid - leaders of social movements, religions, government
departments and even the media, in some countries, can be really, really
stupid. The lives of gays in Russia, for example, are becoming more and more
precarious - beatings and even killings of gays are becoming more and more
common, because many Russians believe that being gay automatically means also
being a paedophile. This confused belief is obviously shared or even propogated
by its leader - who wanted to arrest any gay athletes going to the Olympics
there. And when people who hold narrow, prejudiced views about autism are in
control of how autistics get treated, we suffer for it.
A prime example is the
vaccines-cause-autism crowd. Despite the exposure of Wakefield's original
'research' as a fraud, after years of studies by whole teams of respected
scientists who could not replicate his results, despite science showing that a)
mercury poisoning symptoms are radically different to autism, b) autism is
genetic anyway, c) the amount of mercury in the original vaccines is less than
what we are exposed to on a daily basis in our environment, and d) the relevant
additive was removed from vaccines long before the current rise of
autism diagnosis rates among children born since then - and that's just the tip
of the iceberg of the scientific evidence against this nonsense - still, they
shrill, and yell, and agitate, and jump up and down, and rave about Big Pharma
'damaging' their children... Meanwhile, rates of preventable (and far more
damaging than autism) diseases such as measles, once on the wane, are rising.
Sigh.
And then there's the current fad for
anti-autism bleach "treatments". The parents of the kids subjected to
this often post pictures online of supposed 'parasites' they found in their
child's faeces after the bleach - pictures that are actually of segments of the
child's intestinal wall coming away. That's right, they're burning their kid's
insides out. But if you dare try and point that out, question them, oh boy.
They will not budge, no matter how much common sense and science you present
them with.
One reason I can't understand such people
is that I can't imagine not constantly using my mind. My mind is always
busy or focussed on something, I'm never thinking about nothing, even in
meditation. My mind has always been busy, since as far back as I can remember
into my childhood. I got labelled a "daydreamer" and "away with
the fairies" as a result, but my distraction only meant that what was
happening inside my head was usually far more interesting than my humdrum
day-to-day "outer" world.
And this thinking doesn't stop once an
opinion has been formed, or a philosophy adopted. I keep questioning, rooting
out the contradictions, the little nonsenses, the intricacies. I'm a questing
being by nature. And one who believes in balancing head and heart - in my
twenties, I noticed that many people tended to extremes of one or the other,
and the results weren't good. Either you were cold, detached, intellectual,
'ivory-tower'-ish, scorning the wisdom of the heart (and yes, it does have
some); or you were overly emotional and prone to believing silliness like the
above. I decided that the best way was to meld the two, have each influence and
temper the other. That way, I figured, I would come to a calm, sensible,
rational place, with the wisdom of both. It didn't solve all my problems of
course, but it is a stance that's served me well over the years.
So I don't understand not constantly using
your mind. I don't understand why anyone would just accept crap and not
question it. I don't hate stupid people or anything (though I sometimes get
frustrated with them), but I so don't understand stupidity.
Hi Penni, I read your column in the Bay Weekend on a regular basis, and finally today, decided to check out your blog. Sadly, we are surrounded by stupid aren't we?
ReplyDeleteI too was labelled a daydreamer when a child, I have, through the years rather lost that, too busy working to survive, but after reading this, I think I need to get back to that person I once was, this blog post has certainly inspired me in that direction. Oh and FWIW - my ex- was/is the second type of stupid.