tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post485065806649375286..comments2023-12-28T18:05:33.260+13:00Comments on AStrangerInGodzone: Aspie Reactions to CriticismStrangerInGodzonehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01092023230098316617noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post-3593088993798672772017-02-26T09:10:28.664+13:002017-02-26T09:10:28.664+13:00Or the 'observations' I had to undergo ad ...Or the 'observations' I had to undergo ad nauseam. I was excellent at my work (they said), yet never quite was 'excellent' when observed. Funny that. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post-28231015828504825152017-02-26T09:08:11.652+13:002017-02-26T09:08:11.652+13:00I feel 'criticised' to 'death'. I ...I feel 'criticised' to 'death'. I wish 'they' would start looking at themselves sometime. 'They' are very good at finding fault with me but very slow at considering their own faults. I'm always blindsided by them. It always comes out of left field, as it were. They are experts at bullying me though, yet they can't discern even that. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post-87424633277975900032015-02-02T13:28:39.631+13:002015-02-02T13:28:39.631+13:00Jackie, this is undoubtedly true. I would not limi...Jackie, this is undoubtedly true. I would not limit the damage to that done by schools either. Many others will criticise us throughout life, and it begins in childhood.StrangerInGodzonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01092023230098316617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post-50467173006044292852015-02-02T09:37:34.107+13:002015-02-02T09:37:34.107+13:00I've been told I am hypersensitive to criticis...I've been told I am hypersensitive to criticism. I believe at least for me it's that our public schools overemphasize being right and not making mistakes, by punishing and humiliating students for mistakes. So those of us with forms of Autism tending to have oversensitive amygaldas, learn to associate being wrong with fear of punishment. In my experience this lead to thinking, "If IJackienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post-25212898090970938602014-06-02T12:08:18.408+12:002014-06-02T12:08:18.408+12:00To say nothing of how the "performance review...To say nothing of how the "performance review" cycle fails an aspie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post-17797008324437420152013-02-03T18:08:27.014+13:002013-02-03T18:08:27.014+13:00OH... MY... GOSH...
SO WELL EXPRESSED! UGH! I al...OH... MY... GOSH... <br /><br />SO WELL EXPRESSED! UGH! I almost cried while reading this. Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12959298817578829695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post-78516189328678661222013-01-12T21:03:20.055+13:002013-01-12T21:03:20.055+13:00True man! story of my life too! you have actually ...True man! story of my life too! you have actually spoken on my behalf. thanks dude!manuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15756161580845652886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6580072434029469025.post-70531270187002155092012-03-05T02:04:03.769+13:002012-03-05T02:04:03.769+13:00Oh, dear God, Penni, you've done it again--spo...Oh, dear God, Penni, you've done it again--spoken for me. This post is the story of my life. They're going to engrave that on my tombstone: "But what did I DO?" Unfortunately I don't have any hints or tips, because I've *never* figured this one out. But I really, really thank you for posting itEvahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10510057263349904793noreply@blogger.com